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How to Memorize the Qur’an and Not Forget it!
How to Memorize
the Qur’an and Not Forget it!
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by: Nihal Khan July 29, 2012in Featured, Inspiration
and Spirituality, Islam, Quran and
Sunnah, Ramadan, Worship 62 Comments
Ramadan Mubarak to everyone! I hope
your fasts and prayers are accepted by The Almighty. I feel there can't be a
better time for this post than in Ramadan. This is the method I used to
memorize in Qur'an back in hifdh school. I used this technique to memorize the
Qur'an, alḥamdulillāh. And until now, I feel it's the reason I've
been leading tarāwīḥ for close to five years now, alḥamdulillāh.
Memorizing Qur'an
It's important to understand that this
process is broken into 3 categories:
1) new lesson,
2) new memorization,
3) old memorization.
I'll give a brief intro to each
category and then show you how to properly memorize within each fold. It's
important to understand that memorizing Qur'an for the long-term is a process
which takes close to a month. Once you memorize an āyah,
it won't be solid until you repeat it a number of times until it enters the
deeper part of your brain.
New Lesson
This is where you will be memorizing
from scratch. If you are serious about memorizing, you'll need to follow these
tips exactly as they are written below.
1) Read the page 10
times while looking in from the top.
2) Read the first āyah on the page 10 times while looking in.
3) Now read the same
verse 10 times without looking at it, until you can recite it without any
mistakes.
4) Begin connecting
the ayahs. Recite the first and second āyah together
without looking in and without mistakes.
5) Keep connecting
the ayaat on the page. Each time you connect a new āyah,
go back to the top of the page and read till the āyah you've
memorized.
6) When you reach the
last āyah, you should recite the whole page from the top without
looking and without any mistakes.
7) Recite the page
from memory to someone. You should have zero mistakes.
8) You can repeat the
above steps as needed to have a perfect page memorized.
New Memorization
This is the amount of Qur'an which
you've memorized in the last 30 days. Take this part seriously, it'll determine
if the ayaat you memorized will be solid for your life or not.
(Retaining/reviewing Qurʾān is a 25 day process. After
those 25 days, reviewing once a month will suffice. This will lead to the 'old
memorization' which we'll speak about).
1) Whatever you
review in this section, you MUST recite it to someone who has either memorized
the ayaat or is well-versed in reading the Qur'an.
2) If you've
memorized five pages in the last five days, you must recite them to yourself
until you don't make any errors. Then go recite it to a teacher.
3) From this point
on, whatever you memorize, it MUST be read daily. When I say read, it means
reviewed to yourself without mistakes AND recited to someone else.
4) If for some reason
you didn't review your 'new memorization' for the day, then don't memorize new
ayaat. You're pouring water into a cup w/ a hole. Each day you don't review the
'new memorization,' you're making the hole in your cup bigger and bigger until
you won't remember anything! (If you did not review a page for seven days
consecutively, go back to the 'new lesson' and re-memorize the page).
5) I sound somewhat
redundant here, because I can't lay anymore importance on how much you need to
review the 'new memorization.' It'll make/break your hifdh.
6) If you memorize a
page a day, you'll finish a juz in 20 days. After these twenty days, take five
extra days to review the whole juz with someone proficient.
7) The juz you've
memorized will now be considered part of your 'old memorization.'
Old Memorization
This is anything you've reviewed for at
least twenty-five days consecutively. The amount you review depends on how much
Qur'an you've memorized. Once you've memorized the Qur'an (which I pray is soon
for all of you seeking to memorize it), new lessons and new memorizations will
come to a halt, and you'll be left with the old memorization. This will
continue for the left of our lives till death does us part.
1) Daily review
1.
Between 1-3 juz, you should review five
pages daily.
2.
Between 4-7 juz you should review 10
pages (which equals half the juz) daily.
3.
Between 7-15 juz, you should review 20
pages (which equals one juz) daily.
4.
Between 15-20 juz, you should review 30
pages(which equals 1.5 juz) daily.
5.
Between 20-30 juz, you should review 60
pages (which equals 2 juz) daily.
2) Read the juz to yourself then recite to a teacher/hafidh.
This process will continue for the rest
of your life.
3) In the 'old memorization,' you
should not get more than four mistakes, or four stutters in a juz.
A mistake classifies as reading
something incorrectly and not being able to correct it. A stutter classifies
reading something incorrectly, being sent back a few ayahs to correct it, and
finally reading it correctly. At the same time, you should be make more than
one mistake or one stutter for every five pages you read.
Concluding remarks
·
When I found a verse to be hard, I
would look into the mushaf and write it somewhere. At times I would also listen
to recitations to ease the memorization for me (I recommend Sh. Husary).
Sometimes looking in and repeating it won't make the verse stick, so do
whatever it takes to memorize it!
·
If you falter somewhat in the old
memorization, it's ok. Just don't miss two to three days at once. Reading
Qur'an is a lifetime endeavor.
·
Reviewing is more important than
memorizing.
·
Focus on perfecting your 'new lesson'
and 'new memorization.'
·
If you feel some part isn't strong,
give preference to reviewing that part rather than memorizing something new.
·
Read something EVERYDAY. Not only
should we do this as students of hifdh, but it should be our habit as Muslims.
I'm saying, don't say “I've memorized an x amount of Qur'an today, so no need
to read and reflect.” Take out some time to read and reflect on a few verses
daily.
This is the optimal method which I
found easy for myself to memorize. It was formulated in my fourteen-year-old
mind as a Qur'an student who found it hard to memorize Allāh's book. I asked Allāh's help, and I feel
this method was his answer.
I hope Allāh facilitates
the memorization of His book for you all, and blesses you with a positively
unforgettable Ramadan where you achieve all the goals of your lives.
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
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Thursday, October 31, 2013
First Aid utk org stroke
dipetik dari blog The Paranormal Life...kaedah yg mungkin berguna di waktu kecemasan...
RAWATAN KECEMASAN ANGIN AHMAR/STROKE
Aku terhutang budi pada kau sebab apa yang kau ajar pada aku telah berjaya menyelamatkan ayah aku daripada ajal, bro"
Itu ayat yang diucapkan oleh sahabat lama saya, Ikhwan Rosli, 24 tahun sewaktu dia memeluk saya dengan erat semalam. Rata rata orang ramai di kedai makan semalam memandang perlakuan kami seperti pelik.
"Woi kau ni, nanti orang ingat kita gay!"
"Oh, sorry bro." Katanya sambil tersengih.
Ikhwan menceritakan pengalamannya yang berlaku setahun yang lepas apabila ayahnya diserang angin ahmar (di dalam bahasa Inggeris ianya dipanggil sebagai 'stroke').
"Masa kejadian tu berlaku, aku tengah makan malam dengan keluarga dirumah. Tiba tiba ayah aku collapse dan mulutnya dah senget. Dia bercakap pun dah tak betul."
Sambil mendengar dia bercerita, saya mengisi paip saya dengan tembakau jenama Domingo's. Makin berusia, makin pelik benda yang diminati.
"Masa tu aku agak gelabah jugak la bro walaupun pernah berlaku dulu. Tapi aku terus ingat benda yang kau pernah ajar aku dulu. Lepas aku buat, dia sedarkan diri 10 minit kemudian sebelum aku hantar dia ke hospital. Keesokannya hospital bagi dia kebenaran untuk balik rumah".
Sambungnya lagi: "Yang bestnya bro, doktor Hospital Pantai tu tanya aku mana aku belajar rawatan tu. Katanya, kalau aku tak buat rawatan kecemasan tu masa peringkat awal, harapan untuk ayah aku survive memang tipis, bro."
Terdetik di hati untuk berkongsi kepada semua mengenai cara rawatan ini. Saya dulu mempelajari teknik rawatan tradisional Cina ini daripada seorang sensei. Caranya amat mudah sekali dan berguna kepada sesiapa yang mempunyai ahli keluarga atau sahabat yang menghidap penyakit stroke / angin ahmar.
R̲a̲w̲a̲t̲a̲n̲ ̲K̲e̲c̲e̲m̲a̲s̲a̲n̲ ̲S̲t̲r̲o̲k̲e̲ ̲1̲0̲1̲
Barangan diperlukan:
Beberapa batang jarum. Seperti jarum menjahit.
Caranya:
- Pastikan pesakit berada didalam posisi duduk. Jangan dijatuhkan atau dibaringkan kerana khuatir kapilari darah di kepala pesakit pecah.
- Jangan menggerakkan pesakit kemana mana tempat lain. Misalnya, jikalau pesakit rebah di tandas, lakukannya di situ. Pergerakan badan boleh menyebabkan kapilari darah di otak pecah.
- Sterilkan jarum yang ada dengan api sebelum bermula untuk menghindarkan jangkitan kuman.
- Jarum yang telah disterilkan itu, cucuk setiap jari jemari pesakit sedalam 1mm sehingga mengeluarkan beberapa titisan darah. Jikalau tidak keluar, picit jarinya sehingga darah keluar. Cucuk seperti akupunktur.
- Jikalau berlaku perubahan bentuk mulut pada pesakit, tarik kedua - dua telinganya sehingga merah. Kemudian cucuk cuping telinganya sehingga keluar lebih kurang dua titisan darah.
- Selepas beberapa minit, pesakit akan mula sedarkan diri. Berikan dia rehat seketika dan berilah dia minum teh sebelum dibawa ke hospital untuk rawatan susulan.
Penyakit angin ahmar / stroke merupakan antara penyebab utama kematian di negara ini. Majoriti tidak mengetahui cara - cara untuk mengendalikan pesakit apabila situasi seperti ini berlaku. Selalunya apabila ambulans sampai, banyak pergerakan akan berlaku dan masa akan dibazirkan untuk menunggu ambulans sampai sebelum rawatan dapat diberikan.
Diharap kaedah rawatan ini dapat dihebahkan kepada orang ramai agar dapat kita ingat dan praktikkan. Semoga dapat kita selamatkan orang yang tersayang dan mereka yang memerlukan bantuan.
Sepertimana Ikhwan dapat menyelamatkan ayahnya tempoh hari
RAWATAN KECEMASAN ANGIN AHMAR/STROKE
Aku terhutang budi pada kau sebab apa yang kau ajar pada aku telah berjaya menyelamatkan ayah aku daripada ajal, bro"
Itu ayat yang diucapkan oleh sahabat lama saya, Ikhwan Rosli, 24 tahun sewaktu dia memeluk saya dengan erat semalam. Rata rata orang ramai di kedai makan semalam memandang perlakuan kami seperti pelik.
"Woi kau ni, nanti orang ingat kita gay!"
"Oh, sorry bro." Katanya sambil tersengih.
Ikhwan menceritakan pengalamannya yang berlaku setahun yang lepas apabila ayahnya diserang angin ahmar (di dalam bahasa Inggeris ianya dipanggil sebagai 'stroke').
"Masa kejadian tu berlaku, aku tengah makan malam dengan keluarga dirumah. Tiba tiba ayah aku collapse dan mulutnya dah senget. Dia bercakap pun dah tak betul."
Sambil mendengar dia bercerita, saya mengisi paip saya dengan tembakau jenama Domingo's. Makin berusia, makin pelik benda yang diminati.
"Masa tu aku agak gelabah jugak la bro walaupun pernah berlaku dulu. Tapi aku terus ingat benda yang kau pernah ajar aku dulu. Lepas aku buat, dia sedarkan diri 10 minit kemudian sebelum aku hantar dia ke hospital. Keesokannya hospital bagi dia kebenaran untuk balik rumah".
Sambungnya lagi: "Yang bestnya bro, doktor Hospital Pantai tu tanya aku mana aku belajar rawatan tu. Katanya, kalau aku tak buat rawatan kecemasan tu masa peringkat awal, harapan untuk ayah aku survive memang tipis, bro."
Terdetik di hati untuk berkongsi kepada semua mengenai cara rawatan ini. Saya dulu mempelajari teknik rawatan tradisional Cina ini daripada seorang sensei. Caranya amat mudah sekali dan berguna kepada sesiapa yang mempunyai ahli keluarga atau sahabat yang menghidap penyakit stroke / angin ahmar.
R̲a̲w̲a̲t̲a̲n̲ ̲K̲e̲c̲e̲m̲a̲s̲a̲n̲ ̲S̲t̲r̲o̲k̲e̲ ̲1̲0̲1̲
Barangan diperlukan:
Beberapa batang jarum. Seperti jarum menjahit.
Caranya:
- Pastikan pesakit berada didalam posisi duduk. Jangan dijatuhkan atau dibaringkan kerana khuatir kapilari darah di kepala pesakit pecah.
- Jangan menggerakkan pesakit kemana mana tempat lain. Misalnya, jikalau pesakit rebah di tandas, lakukannya di situ. Pergerakan badan boleh menyebabkan kapilari darah di otak pecah.
- Sterilkan jarum yang ada dengan api sebelum bermula untuk menghindarkan jangkitan kuman.
- Jarum yang telah disterilkan itu, cucuk setiap jari jemari pesakit sedalam 1mm sehingga mengeluarkan beberapa titisan darah. Jikalau tidak keluar, picit jarinya sehingga darah keluar. Cucuk seperti akupunktur.
- Jikalau berlaku perubahan bentuk mulut pada pesakit, tarik kedua - dua telinganya sehingga merah. Kemudian cucuk cuping telinganya sehingga keluar lebih kurang dua titisan darah.
- Selepas beberapa minit, pesakit akan mula sedarkan diri. Berikan dia rehat seketika dan berilah dia minum teh sebelum dibawa ke hospital untuk rawatan susulan.
Penyakit angin ahmar / stroke merupakan antara penyebab utama kematian di negara ini. Majoriti tidak mengetahui cara - cara untuk mengendalikan pesakit apabila situasi seperti ini berlaku. Selalunya apabila ambulans sampai, banyak pergerakan akan berlaku dan masa akan dibazirkan untuk menunggu ambulans sampai sebelum rawatan dapat diberikan.
Diharap kaedah rawatan ini dapat dihebahkan kepada orang ramai agar dapat kita ingat dan praktikkan. Semoga dapat kita selamatkan orang yang tersayang dan mereka yang memerlukan bantuan.
Sepertimana Ikhwan dapat menyelamatkan ayahnya tempoh hari
Sunday, October 27, 2013
Saturday, October 26, 2013
Friday, October 25, 2013
Monday, October 21, 2013
Saturday, October 19, 2013
Thursday, October 17, 2013
ANTI-INFLAMMATORY DRINK Reduce gout and arthritis pains.
- 2 carrots
- 1 medium-sized sweet potato
- ¼ pineapple
- 1-inch ginger rootTastes so good and help reduce pains caused by inflammation. 8384825233&set=a.468709195232.249603.80438935232&type=1&theaterhttps://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10151688384825233&set=a.468709195232.249603.80438935232&type=1&theater
Wednesday, October 16, 2013
Doa before Prayer
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Subhaanaka Allaahumma wa bihamdika, wa tabaarakasmuka, wa ta'aalaa jadduka, wa laa 'ilaaha ghayruk
Glory is to You O Allah, and praise. Blessed is Your Name and Exalted is Your Majesty. There is none worthy of worship but You.
Subhaanaka Allaahumma wa bihamdika, wa tabaarakasmuka, wa ta'aalaa jadduka, wa laa 'ilaaha ghayruk
Glory is to You O Allah, and praise. Blessed is Your Name and Exalted is Your Majesty. There is none worthy of worship but You.
Tuesday, September 24, 2013
family interactions with young adults’ psychological distress and well-being. A
Daily family interactions among young adults in the United States from Latin American, Filipino, East Asian, and European backgrounds
- Andrew Fuligni
- University of California, Los Angeles, USA, afuligni@ucla.edu
Abstract
In contrast to the abundant research on family relationships during adolescence, the nature of family interactions during young adulthood remains comparatively unexamined. The current study explored ethnic differences in young adults’ interactions with parents and siblings, the role of other activities in young adults’ family interactions, and the association of family interactions with young adults’ psychological distress and well-being. A total of 220 young adults (Mage = 25.5 years) from Latin American, East Asian, Filipino, and European backgrounds in the United States reported their family interactions, daily activities, and psychological distress and well-being using daily diaries for 14 days. As expected, time spent in work, school, and other relationships was found to conflict with time spent being with, and helping, family members. Leisure time and conflict with parents and siblings had significance for psychological distress and well-being. Other findings suggested a potentially higher level of family importance and connectedness among young adults from Filipino backgrounds as compared to their peers.
Uninvolved parenting
http://psychology.about.com/od/childcare/f/uninvolved-parenting.htm
Question: What Is Uninvolved Parenting?
Answer:
During the 1960s, psychologist Diana Baumrind described three different parenting styles based on her researche with preschool-age children: authoritarian, authoritative and permissive parenting. In later years, researchers added a fourth style known as uninvolved parenting.
Uninvolved parenting, sometimes referred to as neglectful parenting, is a style characterized by a lack of responsiveness to a child's needs. Uninvolved parents make few to no demands of their children and they are often indifferent, dismissive or even completely neglectful.
These parents have little emotional involvement with their kids. While they provide for basic needs like food and shelter, they are uninvolved in their children's lives. The degree of involvement may vary considerably. Some uninvolved parents may be relatively hands-off with their kids, but may still have some basic limits such as curfews. Others may be downright neglectful or even reject their children outright.
Characteristics of the Uninvolved Parenting Style
Uninvolved parents:
- Are emotionally distant from their children
- Offer little or no supervision
- Show little warmth, love and affection towards their children
- Have few or no expectations or demands for behavior
- Don't attend school events and parent-teacher conferences
- May intentionally avoid their children
- Are often too overwhelmed by their own problems to deal with their children
The Effects of Uninvolved Parenting
Children raised by uninvolved parents:
- Must learn to provide for themselves
- Fear becoming dependent on other people
- Are often emotionally withdrawn
- Tend to exhibit more delinquency during adolescence
- Feel fear, anxiety or stress due to the lack of family support
- Have an increased risk of substance abuse
Understanding Uninvolved Parenting
Researchers associate parenting styles with a range of child outcomes in areas such as social skills and academic performance. The children of uninvolved parents generally perform poorly in nearly every area of life. These children tend to display deficits in cognition, attachment, emotional skills and social skills.
Due to the lack of emotional responsiveness and love from their caretakers, children raised by uninvolved parents may have difficulty forming attachments later in life. The complete lack of boundaries in the home makes it difficult to learn appropriate behaviors and limits in school and other social situations, which is why children with uninvolved parents are more likely to misbehave.
Parents who exhibit an uninvolved parenting style were often themselves raised by uninvolved and dismissive parents. As adults, they may find themselves repeating the same patterns they were raised with. Other parents who display this style may simply be so caught up in their busy lives that they find it easier to take a hands-off approach to dealing with their children.
In some cases, parents may be so wrapped up in their own problems (i.e., being overworked, coping with depression, struggling with substance abuse) that they actually fail to see how uninvolved they are with their children or are simply unable to provide the emotional support their children need.
References
Baumrind, D. (1967). Child-care practices anteceding three patterns of preschool behavior. Genetic Psychology Monographs, 75, 43-88.
Baumrind, D. (1991). The influence of parenting style on adolescent competence and substance use. Journal of Early Adolescence, 11(1), 56-95.
Bahr, S. J. & Hoffmann, J. P. (2010). Parenting style, religiosity, peers, and adolescent heavy drinking. Journal of Studies on Alcohol and Drugs, 71, 539-543.
Maccoby, E.E. (1992). The role of parents in the socialization of children: An historical overview. Developmental Psychology, 28, 1006-1017.
Santrock, J.W. (2007). A topical approach to life-span development, third Ed. New York: McGraw-Hill.
Sunday, July 21, 2013
4 AIR ISTIMEWA YANG SIHAT
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4 AIR ISTIMEWA YANG SIHAT
Air masak yang di campur dengan buah-buahan di bawah dapat membantu mengekalkan kesihatan kerana membantu membuang toksin dalam badan. Air yang di campur buah-buahan ini perlu dibiarkan dahulu 20 minit sebelum minum. Jom buat sendiri:
1) Teh hijau, pudina, limau nipis
Untuk mengurangkan lemak, pencernaan, sakit kepala, pernafasan
2) Strawberri, kiwi
Melindungi sistem imun, pencernaan, kesihatan kardiovaskular,
menyeimbangkan gula dalam darah
3) Timun, limau nipis, lemon
Mengatasi muntah, loya, hidrasi, mengawal selera makan, pencernaan
4) Lemon, limau nipis, oren
Untuk vitamin C badan, sistem imunisasi, pedih ulu hati
Minuman di atas hendaklah di minum pada suhu bilik untuk tempoh 48 jam. Selepas 48 jam, perlu buat air yang baru.
4 AIR ISTIMEWA YANG SIHAT
Air masak yang di campur dengan buah-buahan di bawah dapat membantu mengekalkan kesihatan kerana membantu membuang toksin dalam badan. Air yang di campur buah-buahan ini perlu dibiarkan dahulu 20 minit sebelum minum. Jom buat sendiri:
1) Teh hijau, pudina, limau nipis
Untuk mengurangkan lemak, pencernaan, sakit kepala, pernafasan
2) Strawberri, kiwi
Melindungi sistem imun, pencernaan, kesihatan kardiovaskular,
menyeimbangkan gula dalam darah
3) Timun, limau nipis, lemon
Mengatasi muntah, loya, hidrasi, mengawal selera makan, pencernaan
4) Lemon, limau nipis, oren
Untuk vitamin C badan, sistem imunisasi, pedih ulu hati
Minuman di atas hendaklah di minum pada suhu bilik untuk tempoh 48 jam. Selepas 48 jam, perlu buat air yang baru.
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